Wire the main-merge-gate lifecycle event into commands/ultraexecute-local.md
Phase 8. Three event variants emitted via lib/stats/event-emit.mjs (S8):
- main-merge-gate fired at the gate boundary
- main-merge-approved fired on operator confirm
- main-merge-declined fired on operator decline (run recorded as partial)
The gate ALWAYS pauses regardless of gates_mode — it is the one always-on
boundary that --gates does not toggle. On decline, --resume re-enters at
the gate, and the wave session branches survive on the remote thanks to
Hard Rule 19's push-before-cleanup. Recovery surface is documented inline.
Pin in tests/lib/main-merge-gate.test.mjs locks the always-on prose, the
event names, and the recovery-surface contract.